Why RAIDZ3 and not RAIDZ2?
For each increment of raid level you more or less half the write speed.
I've discovered that the hard way!
I went and got two 3TB SATA drives today, set them up as a mirror, and am zfs-send'ing merrily away to them right now (I only had about 2TB of data).
As snapshots finish transferring, I'll have to start up a few key VMs again and run them live off the external mirror pair. Then once everything is transferred, I'll destroy the RAIDZ3 pool and re-create it as a RAID-10 style array. And at that point I'll likely be having to use PVE to do live disk migrations because I can't keep all these VMs down for this length of time, which will take freaking forever, but oh well. (This server is an emergency replacement for some similarly-aged hardware that had quasi-random hardware issues.)
I'm still not sure if it's a good idea, or worth it, to add the mirrored Toshiba "Enterprise" eMLC drives as a ZIL to that RAID10 array. Opinions welcome.