While you are running the update, in another terminal run `dmesg -Tw` and see if it says anything is wrong. Maybe you just have a failing disk or something.
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:06 2022] device-mapper: multipath: Reinstating path 69:64.
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:06 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:06 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:06 2022] device-mapper: multipath: Failing path 69:64.
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:11 2022] device-mapper: multipath: Reinstating path 69:64.
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:11 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:11 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:11 2022] device-mapper: multipath: Failing path 69:64.
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:16 2022] device-mapper: multipath: Reinstating path 69:64.
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:16 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:16 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:16 2022] device-mapper: multipath: Failing path 69:64.
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:21 2022] device-mapper: multipath: Reinstating path 69:64.
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:21 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:21 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:21 2022] device-mapper: multipath: Failing path 69:64.
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:26 2022] device-mapper: multipath: Reinstating path 69:64.
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:26 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:26 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:26 2022] device-mapper: multipath: Failing path 69:64.
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:31 2022] device-mapper: multipath: Reinstating path 69:64.
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:31 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:31 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:31 2022] device-mapper: multipath: Failing path 69:64.
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:36 2022] device-mapper: multipath: Reinstating path 69:64.
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:36 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:36 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:36 2022] device-mapper: multipath: Failing path 69:64.
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:41 2022] device-mapper: multipath: Reinstating path 69:64.
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:41 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:41 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:41 2022] device-mapper: multipath: Failing path 69:64.
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: alua: supports implicit TPGS
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: alua: device naa.6000d310058198000000000000000021 port group f03b rel port 3b
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: [sdcg] 21474836480 512-byte logical blocks: (11.0 TB/10.0 TiB)
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: [sdcg] 4096-byte physical blocks
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sdcg: detected capacity change from 0 to 10995116277760
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:11: alua: supports implicit TPGS
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:11: alua: device naa.6000d310058198000000000000000022 port group f03b rel port 3b
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:2: alua: supports implicit TPGS
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:2: alua: device naa.6000d31005819800000000000000000b port group f03b rel port 3b
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:3: alua: supports implicit TPGS
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:3: alua: device naa.6000d31005819800000000000000000d port group f03b rel port 3b
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:4: alua: supports implicit TPGS
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:4: alua: device naa.6000d31005819800000000000000000f port group f03b rel port 3b
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:5: alua: supports implicit TPGS
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:5: alua: device naa.6000d310058198000000000000000019 port group f03b rel port 3b
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:6: alua: supports implicit TPGS
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:6: alua: device naa.6000d310058198000000000000000017 port group f03b rel port 3b
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:7: alua: supports implicit TPGS
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:7: alua: device naa.6000d31005819800000000000000001b port group f03b rel port 3b
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:8: alua: supports implicit TPGS
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:8: alua: device naa.6000d31005819800000000000000001a port group f03b rel port 3b
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:9: alua: supports implicit TPGS
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:9: alua: device naa.6000d31005819800000000000000001e port group f03b rel port 3b
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:11: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:4: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:3: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:2: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:6: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:7: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:5: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:9: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:42 2022] sd 19:0:0:8: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:46 2022] device-mapper: multipath: Reinstating path 69:64.
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:46 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 11:55:46 2022] sd 19:0:0:10: alua: port group f03b state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 13:45:03 2022] device-mapper: table: 253:51: multipath: error getting device
[Fri Feb 25 13:45:03 2022] device-mapper: ioctl: error adding target to table
[Fri Feb 25 13:45:03 2022] sd 21:0:0:10: alua: port group f03c state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 13:45:03 2022] sd 16:0:0:10: alua: port group f037 state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 13:45:03 2022] sd 21:0:0:10: alua: port group f03c state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 13:45:03 2022] sd 15:0:0:10: alua: port group f036 state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 13:45:03 2022] sd 16:0:0:10: alua: port group f037 state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 13:45:03 2022] sd 15:0:0:10: alua: port group f036 state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 13:45:03 2022] sd 22:0:0:8: alua: port group f03d state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 13:45:03 2022] sd 20:0:0:8: alua: port group f039 state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:4: alua: supports implicit TPGS
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:4: alua: device naa.6000d31005819800000000000000000f port group f036 rel port 36
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:5: alua: supports implicit TPGS
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:5: alua: device naa.6000d310058198000000000000000019 port group f036 rel port 36
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:6: alua: supports implicit TPGS
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:6: alua: device naa.6000d310058198000000000000000017 port group f036 rel port 36
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:7: alua: supports implicit TPGS
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:7: alua: device naa.6000d31005819800000000000000001b port group f036 rel port 36
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:8: alua: supports implicit TPGS
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:8: alua: device naa.6000d31005819800000000000000001a port group f036 rel port 36
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:11: alua: port group f036 state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:10: alua: port group f036 state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:9: alua: supports implicit TPGS
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:9: alua: device naa.6000d31005819800000000000000001e port group f036 rel port 36
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:5: alua: port group f036 state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:4: alua: port group f036 state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:3: alua: port group f036 state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:2: alua: port group f036 state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:8: alua: port group f036 state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:7: alua: port group f036 state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:6: alua: port group f036 state A non-preferred supports toluSNA
[Fri Feb 25 13:51:18 2022] sd 15:0:0:9: alua: port group f036 state A non-preferred supports toluSNA