hey, thanks for all the help. i ended up creating a bond with enp5so so i could see what the config looked like in the /etc/network file. i then edited the bond and vmbr0 to include enps40 and rebooted. it seems to be working. i can reach everything and all the vms are reaching internet. i just dont know how to figure out if its actually working.WebUI and SSH won't work if you remove the NIC from the bridge and your IP is set to that bridge. You should install ifupdown2 and try to remove the NIC from the bridge, create the bond with both NICs and add that bond to the bridge at the same time and then hit the apply button. If that doesn't work you can only edit the /etc/network/interfaces by CLI.
but it says it is so thank you very much