Great news. Did you uninstall the NVIDIA drivers first? I'm currently pinned to the 6.5 kernel and everytime I do apt dist-upgrade the kernel build fails and if I try to boot into the 6.8 kernel it hangs on boot.
First boot with 6.8 , next download nvidia driver and patch it , then install na patched driver (when start install the driver , ask you to uninstall ....)
proxmox-boot-tool kernel pin 6.8.12-2-pve
reboot
chmod +x NVIDIA-Linux-x86_64-550.90.05-vgpu-kvm.run
./NVIDIA-Linux-x86_64-550.90.05-vgpu-kvm.run --apply-patch 550.90.05.patch
./NVIDIA-Linux-x86_64-550.90.05-vgpu-kvm-custom.run --dkms -m=kernel
reboot
nvidia-smi
+-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+
| NVIDIA-SMI 550.90.05 Driver Version: 550.90.05 CUDA Version: N/A |
|-----------------------------------------+------------------------+----------------------+
| GPU Name Persistence-M | Bus-Id Disp.A | Volatile Uncorr. ECC |
| Fan Temp Perf Pwr:Usage/Cap | Memory-Usage | GPU-Util Compute M. |
| | | MIG M. |
|=========================================+========================+======================|
| 0 NVIDIA GeForce RTX 2080 On | 00000000:86:00.0 Off | N/A |
| 0% 52C P8 29W / 260W | 8163MiB / 8192MiB | 0% Default |
| | | N/A |
+-----------------------------------------+------------------------+----------------------+
+-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+
| Processes: |
| GPU GI CI PID Type Process name GPU Memory |
| ID ID Usage |
|=========================================================================================|
| 0 N/A N/A 28716 C+G vgpu 2024MiB |
| 0 N/A N/A 31114 C+G vgpu 2024MiB |
| 0 N/A N/A 38171 C+G vgpu 2024MiB |
| 0 N/A N/A 46857 C+G vgpu 2024MiB |
+-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+