You might try turning on csm and legacy boot in BIOS to see if you can get it booted that way. If that works, check this thread.One of my supermicro boxes hasn't rebooted after the upgrade, using IPMI I can briefly see grub then it reboots. I'll have to go look at it tomorrow.
All my VMs are on external storage so safe (and have backups), but it's a pain
https://forum.proxmox.com/threads/help-with-uefi-boot-issue-after-pve-9-upgrade.169796/