attached full sys log of when it happened ( I would have pasted it all in but it was too large)
Sep 09 18:40:27 nuc11propve kernel: systemd-journal invoked oom-killer: gfp_mask=0x140cca(GFP_HIGHUSER_MOVABLE|__GFP_COMP), order=0, oom_score_adj=-250
Sep 09 18:40:27 nuc11propve kernel: CPU: 5...