Absolutely. It might be the fact that PBS is running as a VM on PVE and the 9000MTU network is bridged, but that's nothing more than a gut feeling.we're in the same boat there. unfortunately we haven't managed to reproduce it at all so far, which likely means there is some additional factor network-wise that makes this much more likely to trigger on your systems.
What I find curious is that it's always the PBS traffic that gets halted, never the NFS traffic - neither the NFS traffic from the SAN to the PVE nodes nor the NFS traffic from PBS to the (different) SAN that carries the PBS storage.
If you have more commits for me to test I'm happy to. Now that I've enabled fleecing to local-zfs the VMs do not get stuck anymore when the backup gets stuck, which was a showstopper beforehand.