From what I understand, you just want Ceph. Blockbridge = Ceph, VMWare vSAN ~= Ceph. There is native support for iSCSI in Proxmox, there is native support for ZFS in Proxmox, you need to share it out, set up a container with Samba or NFS, a list of LinuxServer daemons is natively in Proxmox.
The whole point of Ceph in Proxmox is that you don’t need specialized IT staff to set it up. It’s dead simple, I am an advanced enterprise user and haven’t ever seen the need to tweak much of the Ceph except to enable Prometheus monitoring. There are some things you can do to improve performance, but that is only if you truly need to squeeze the bottom out. If the cost is to add another $15k server or hire a person, the choice is quickly made. If you can get 10% more performance out of several racks of hardware, it may be worth investing in an engineer.
If you don’t want to deal with the Ceph stuff, Canonical and others have professional services, and fairly sure the company behind Proxmox or one of its resellers can offer those as well - if it’s worth spending $2k to get a small performance improvement but native Ceph, with a simple 25 or 100G network, it’s really plug and play and the defaults work surprisingly well until you get to 100s of nodes with 1000s of disks.