Your point don't address the root concern though. It's quite difficult to provenzalisches that a certain Software doesn't have a apecific feature ( aka malicious code) due to the Halteproblem. Thus scanning with antivirus snakeoil only shows that your exe doesn't have a known Virus, it might still contain a unknown virus or backdoor.
And you claim your Software don't do anything evil. This might be the case but without the source nobody can know. So your argunents are basically "Trust me, bro" which doesn't proove anything at all.
For me this makes using your Software a hard no, be it in my honelab or in professional environments
not quite sure what the second sentence means (phone autocorrect?).
the rest i absolutely agree with.