I added enp5s0 after the issue occurs, just for WebUI to manage PVE from my Mac, and enp6s0 is used to connect to the gateway.
I just removed enp5s0, but the issue still there.
its possible that alx drivers have issues with kernel ver 6.8; I dont have any hardware with this chip so I cant test, but I would see if the behavior is different on 6.5.
Originally, the issue occurred on an Intel NIC, and then on this Qualcomm one. I can't tell since when, but several weeks ago, there's no issue with both two.