To me, the OP's question is more about if anyone knows the said hardware, I for instances know some Intel NUCs had stability issues with certain Linux kernels and driver issues, needed limiting C STATES or disabling features in firmware. So no, I do not know this specific hardware.
Also, your "1TB NVME SSD" (nothing known about it) can be eaten by ZFS write amplification and, in cluster setup by PVE bugs.
I do not really know what people mean with these semi-informed ZFS comments, I have an old file server with 8T storage striped mirror with ZFS on 8G and doing 10 years just fine 24/7 without RAM issues.
Also, ZFS is not a file system that is "professional", it is a copy-on-write filesytem that performs poorly and it uses its own RAM caching unlike others. It is popular with homelabbers because PVE does not probivide any other RAID-capable options in GUI and it is brittle and terrible choice for most setups, certainly terrible for root on Linux, it is alright for a backup storage on spinning drives where it fares better than tape.