I feel your pain
I was an early adopter of Areca 1880 cards that had some firmware bugs and cooling issues (they redesigned the heat sinks to fix that)
To make matters worse, at the same time, I also had over 100 WD RE3 disks that also had firmware bugs.
Between the two we were dealing with locked up servers and failed disks randomly for a few months.
Hope you find a solution soon.