ZFS Size not adding up on windows?

so in theory the issue that it does not add up on the vm with the zfs vm disk would be the VM of the checkbox?
 
so in theory the issue that it does not add up on the vm with the zfs vm disk would be the VM of the checkbox?

No, there is no refreservation, so there is already thin provision. In #6, there are links to the underlying ZFS space consumption, so that is already taken care of and you have not answered if you're using TRIM inside of your guest yet. Concerning the answers you're gonna get, that's all. Everything that can lead to the space usage you see is already explained, at least what I can see.