After reflecting on the matter I have isolated this to Proxmox itself and passthrough. And that is really

as I want to be a long term member of this community.
The CPU will work if I use KVM + OVMF + ZFS and NO passthrough. If I then use the same VM, and attempt passthrough I am stuck with a slow motion / (unstable and even crashes itself) or seeming 2.85 throttled CPU...
Is this VirtIO ? Is this network related? Having followed the guide I would love to know it is a hardware limitation of otherwise. As I would love to invest my life quite literally toward the expansion of this medium.
For it is a
marvel to me to see such a light weight and quite literally a discovery THAT COULD change my LIFE forever.
Mark my words I want to be a Platinum member but it is ESSENTIAL to my testing to at least SEE the proper passthrough of my graphics. Otherwise sadly Proxmox is not what it appears to be short of this QUITE literally MAKE or BREAK function on my system.
So without further a due; my most private parts (hehe of my server that is :

)
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Used
: Zpool create NVMeStripe nvme0n1 nvme1n1
Then made standard ZFS item in Proxmox called NVMeStripeID
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/etc/default/grub
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# If you change this file, run 'update-grub' afterwards to update
# /boot/grub/grub.cfg.
# For full documentation of the options in this file, see:
# info -f grub -n 'Simple configuration'
GRUB_DEFAULT=0
GRUB_TIMEOUT=5
GRUB_DISTRIBUTOR="Proxmox Virtual Environment"
GRUB_CMDLINE_LINUX_DEFAULT="quiet intel_iommu=on"
GRUB_CMDLINE_LINUX=""
# Disable os-prober, it might add menu entries for each guest
GRUB_DISABLE_OS_PROBER=true
......
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/etc/modules
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vfio
vfio_iommu_type1
vfio_pci
vfio_virqfd
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/etc/modprobe.d/vfio.conf
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options vfio-pci ids=10de:1b80,10de:10f0 disable_vga=1
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/etc/modprobe.d/blacklist.conf
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blacklist nouveau
blacklist nvidia
blacklist radeon
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/etc/pve/nodes/SS1/qemu-server/100.conf
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agent: 1
balloon: 0
bios: ovmf
bootdisk: scsi0
scsi0: .....
cores: 36
efidisk0: NVMeStipeID:vm-100-disk-2,size=128K
hostpci0: 0b:00,pcie=1,x-vga=on
ide0: NVMeStipeID:vm-100-disk-1,size=256G
ide2: local:iso/Windows.iso,media=cdrom,size=6362368K
kvm: 0
machine: q35
memory: 65535
name: 4KHT10SS
net0: e1000=3E:E2:04:92:51:6A,bridge=vmbr0
numa: 1
ostype: win10
scsihw: virtio-scsi-pci
smbios1: uuid=e57e49b0-6a20-4573-b584-9b1171b439a2
sockets: 1
usb0: host=3-11.4
usb1: host=3-14.4
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For what it's worth; here are a few points I have noticed along the way as my novice spidey senses are tingling.
1) Adding the line of KVM:0 from nothing was freezing my first start attempts after passthrough.
2) I always need to remind myself that UEFI/OVMF is in fact WORKING on ZFS, with initial KVM session. It was after
modprobe.d/vfio.conf + /etc/default/grub/ changes that the CPU seemed to just fall off.
3)bios/uefi defaults + (same settings as ESXi) with Proxmox before (windows boot loader) in the boot sequence.
4!) Initially after clean Proxmox install the grub command prompt and everything after USB went into a initial boot (my first impression was a glitch or otherwise)
!garbled graphics artifacts during the first boot of Proxmox. GRUB interface was entirely illegible unitil I used FTP (winSCP
/etc/default/grub/) and made changes to
GRUB_CMDLINE_LINUX_DEFAULT="quiet intel_iommu=on"
GRUB_CMDLINE_LINUX=""
HMMMmm or come to think of it it could be
/etc/modprobe.d/blacklist.conf, OR /etc/modprobe.d/vfio.conf changes that caused it. Heck maybe it's
/etc/modules changes. I simply know it is NOT 100.conf changes or at least I am convinced this way because I have witnessed the function on KVM - passthrough with whatever settings.
Please help me prove to myself that Proxmox is what I have always been missing.
Then I am ready to jump on board, Sincerely!