can you post the journal from such a boot where it does not work?
-- Journal begins at Mon 2021-09-20 16:22:32 CEST, ends at Mon 2022-02-28 12:17:01 CET. --
Feb 24 17:15:01 pve2 systemd[1]: Starting The Proxmox VE cluster filesystem...
Feb 24 17:15:01 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [quorum] crit: quorum_initialize failed: 2
Feb 24 17:15:01 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [quorum] crit: can't initialize service
Feb 24 17:15:01 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [confdb] crit: cmap_initialize failed: 2
Feb 24 17:15:01 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [confdb] crit: can't initialize service
Feb 24 17:15:01 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] crit: cpg_initialize failed: 2
Feb 24 17:15:01 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] crit: can't initialize service
Feb 24 17:15:01 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] crit: cpg_initialize failed: 2
Feb 24 17:15:01 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] crit: can't initialize service
Feb 24 17:15:02 pve2 systemd[1]: Started The Proxmox VE cluster filesystem.
Feb 24 17:15:07 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: update cluster info (cluster name clusterdisia, version = 3)
Feb 24 17:15:07 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: members: 2/2218
Feb 24 17:15:07 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: all data is up to date
Feb 24 17:15:07 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: members: 2/2218
Feb 24 17:15:07 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: all data is up to date
Feb 24 17:16:10 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: members: 2/2218, 3/2197
Feb 24 17:16:10 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: starting data syncronisation
Feb 24 17:16:10 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: cpg_send_message retried 1 times
Feb 24 17:16:10 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: node has quorum
Feb 24 17:16:10 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: members: 2/2218, 3/2197
Feb 24 17:16:10 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: starting data syncronisation
Feb 24 17:16:10 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: received sync request (epoch 2/2218/00000002)
Feb 24 17:16:10 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: received sync request (epoch 2/2218/00000002)
Feb 24 17:16:10 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: received all states
Feb 24 17:16:10 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: leader is 2/2218
Feb 24 17:16:10 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: synced members: 2/2218, 3/2197
Feb 24 17:16:10 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: start sending inode updates
Feb 24 17:16:10 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: sent all (0) updates
Feb 24 17:16:10 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: all data is up to date
Feb 24 17:16:10 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: received all states
Feb 24 17:16:10 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: all data is up to date
Feb 24 17:16:11 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: received log
Feb 24 17:16:11 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: members: 1/2227, 2/2218, 3/2197
Feb 24 17:16:11 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: starting data syncronisation
Feb 24 17:16:11 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: members: 1/2227, 2/2218, 3/2197
Feb 24 17:16:11 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: starting data syncronisation
Feb 24 17:16:12 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: received sync request (epoch 1/2227/00000002)
Feb 24 17:16:12 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: received sync request (epoch 1/2227/00000002)
Feb 24 17:16:12 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: received all states
Feb 24 17:16:12 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: leader is 1/2227
Feb 24 17:16:12 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: synced members: 1/2227, 2/2218, 3/2197
Feb 24 17:16:12 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: all data is up to date
Feb 24 17:16:12 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: received all states
Feb 24 17:16:12 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: all data is up to date
Feb 24 17:16:12 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: dfsm_deliver_queue: queue length 3
Feb 24 17:16:12 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: received log
Feb 24 17:16:18 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: received log
Feb 24 17:16:19 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: received log
Feb 24 17:16:26 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: received log
Feb 24 17:33:45 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: received log
Feb 24 17:35:28 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: received log
Feb 24 17:35:28 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: received log
Feb 24 17:35:32 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: received log
Feb 24 17:35:33 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: received log
Feb 24 17:36:08 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: received log
Feb 24 17:36:09 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: received log
Feb 24 17:48:21 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [status] notice: received log
Feb 24 18:14:47 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: data verification successful
Feb 24 19:14:47 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: data verification successful
Feb 24 20:14:47 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: data verification successful
Feb 24 21:14:47 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: data verification successful
Feb 24 22:14:47 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: data verification successful
Feb 24 23:14:47 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: data verification successful
Feb 25 00:14:47 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: data verification successful
Feb 25 01:14:47 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: data verification successful
Feb 25 02:14:47 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: data verification successful
Feb 25 03:14:47 pve2 pmxcfs[2218]: [dcdb] notice: data verification successful