Hi everyone, sorry I'm a new proxmox user, I want to ask why RAM usage on the node reaches more than 90%, while the VM running is only one and doesn't use that much RAM? like the screenshot I made
I would try to upgrade to as much Ram as the Computer accepts, to get some free headroom. (I say that because I just replaced some of my Homelab(!) nodes to get 128 GiB per node by dropping nodes with "only" 64 GiB. RAM is always the limiting factor!)
Even with more RAM it's also quite normal for Linux systems to use not used ram for caches.
The Linux kernel ( and ProxmoxVE is basically a Debian Linux with an Ubuntu Kernel) uses the caches as cache to speed up things. Additionally ZFS ( if you use it on the Proxmix VE host) uses RAM for it's own cache.
This is a good thing, I would be more worried if the RAM wouldn't be used thus wasted. See https://linuxatemyram.com for more information.
To monitor the ram usage inside the vms you need a dedicated monitoring Tool like Zabbix, Icinga2, prometheus, checkmk or whatever you prefer.