I also think consumer HDD/SSD are not good for Ceph. Any work-around for that, or replace all disks to SAS/Enterprise disk grades?I think the QLC NAND SSDs are not so good for Ceph. Have you any other SSD to test?
You can set the P440ar to HBA Mode. Then is the Raid Chip deactivated.P440ar ? It's not real HBA controller, maybe problem is there...