OK, I just uploaded new version to the pvetest repository:
pve-qemu-kvm_0.13.0-2_amd64.deb
qemu-server_1.1-23_amd64.deb
That new qemu-server package loads vhost-net module on startup, uses the new -device syntax, and use vhost=on if available. Please can you test?
What's the status on this? Has it made it into production yet?