Ceph with Proxmox is hyperconverged so dont forget your VMs and plan some buffer, in case you wanna upgrade your disks later (needs ram per disk!). Also think about MDS for placing isos on your HCI-Cluster.Thx for the ref jsterr, i've used this to evaluate my needs on storage. My concern is now to evaluate the same thing on backup & monitoring so a a kind of abacus like the one you pointed me would have been priceless I've made some approximation and it will be ok for this time. Next step will be POC !
Backup requirements can be seen here: https://pbs.proxmox.com/docs/installation.html#recommended-server-system-requirements
Monitoring is something you need to setup by your own, there is no proxmox monitoring appliance / system yet. But you can use check_mk for example.