I think the chance of data inconsistency between what is on disk and what the suspended VM/app thinks should be there is too high, which could lead to data corruption. The safe approach is to restart the App and flush any disk cache on the VM. At that point a fresh start is just more reliable.5. create a watchdog service (number of ways to do it) which stonith's the original, and thaws the clone
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