I don't use the same asn (65014 for proxmox, for both evpn/bgp).not working!.
Also, it doesn't make sense to use the same ASN with eBGP and NSX-T ASN (65004) is required to define NSX-T as a remote peer
maybe, try something simple first, with only proxmox evpn
Code:
evpn: evpn
asn 65014
peers 192.168.100.105,192.168.100.106,192.168.100.107
proxmox vm should be able to communicate, even if they are in a different vnet/subnet.