You should only add domains to your relay domains for which you are the MX (where the world sends the mails) - since I do assume that you're not the MX for gmail - do not add it to your relay domains (with this config the whole world can send spam through your IP to gmail - which will lead to the IP getting blocked by gmail (as can be seen in the logs you shared).Yea I've added gmail.com in my Relay Domains