As I stated some times: IO that happens on the VM host system should never, never affect the IO or load of the guest system
The totality of the disk IO will cause the load average of the host and the VMs to go up. What you think 'should never' happen is a wrong assumption on your part.
You have a finite amount of IO to/from your VM disk.
When the backup process is reading from your VM disk, that uses some of the total IO available to your VM disk.
Your pveperf says that you can read at 111MB/sec, if your VM is reading 60MB/sec and the backup is reading at 51MB/sec you are using 100% of your total IO.
If either the backup or the VM wants to (can) read more than that, then load average goes up, there is no way to avoid this unless your have infinite IO available.
The load average is just one metric that gives you an idea of what is going on, it is ok for it to go up and is perfectly normal for it to go up especially when IO intensive tasks such as backups are taking place.
Are you having a performance problem or just see a higher load average an 'think' there is a problem?
If the backup is causing issues, because it is using too much IO, then you need to limit how fast the backup process reads OR you need to get a faster IO system.
All that being said, I am not happy with the recent changes to the backups in Proxmox either. I have not put the latest version of Proxmox into production yet so I do not know, first hand, if there is an issue in 3.2. I did test KVM 1.7 ( whats in the latest version of Proxmox ) awhile back and it had greatly improved the performance of disk IO inside the VM while backups were taking place. You can see my benchmarks on the pve-devel mailing list archives
here.