free -h
command in the VMs console/terminal.top -b -E m -o +%MEM | head -15
I mean, it can be normal, I have an ubuntu 18.04 with GNOME desktop not running really any program hovering a 4 GiB of 6 GiB available.. If you also have a desktop environment in the VM that could be the cause.
free -h
command will show you that (buff/cache column)that you need more memory with KVM enabled makes no sense..if I don't enable it, I don't get overloaded by the guest ram.
but if the CPU overloads me!