In regards to the/ var/spool/pmg/cluster/2/spam/ , I looked on mx1 and verified that the same files that are on mx2 DO exist on mx1 so that looks good.
Here are the only logs back from Feb 27 regarding the pmgtunnel services. There is nothing recently regarding that service in the daemon.log files.
Feb 27 07:54:08 mx2 pmgtunnel[785]: starting server
Feb 27 07:54:08 mx2 pmgtunnel[785]: starting tunnel 786 A.B.C.D
Feb 27 08:44:49 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: database sync 'mx1' failed - DBI connect('dbname=Proxmox_ruledb;host=/var/run/pmgtunnel;port=1;','root',...) failed: server closed the connection unexpectedly#012#011This probably means the server terminated abnormally#012#011before or while processing the request. at /usr/share/perl5/PMG/DBTools.pm line 59.
Feb 27 08:48:49 mx2 pmgtunnel[785]: tunnel finished 786 A.B.C.D
Feb 27 08:48:49 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: database sync 'mx1' failed - DBI connect('dbname=Proxmox_ruledb;host=/var/run/pmgtunnel;port=1;','root',...) failed: server closed the connection unexpectedly#012#011This probably means the server terminated abnormally#012#011before or while processing the request. at /usr/share/perl5/PMG/DBTools.pm line 59.
Feb 27 08:49:08 mx2 pmgtunnel[785]: restarting crashed tunnel 5355 A.B.C.D
In regards to the pmgmirror it looks fairly normal and is regularly posting the below messages to the daemon.log.
Mar 3 08:52:25 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: detected rule database changes - starting sync from 'A.B.C.D'
Mar 3 08:52:26 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: finished rule database sync from host 'A.B.C.D'
Mar 3 08:52:29 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: cluster syncronization finished (0 errors, 5.56 seconds (files 1.87, database 2.45, config 1.24))
Mar 3 08:54:23 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: starting cluster syncronization
Mar 3 08:54:27 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: cluster syncronization finished (0 errors, 4.20 seconds (files 1.22, database 1.73, config 1.25))
Mar 3 08:56:23 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: starting cluster syncronization
Mar 3 08:56:28 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: cluster syncronization finished (0 errors, 4.35 seconds (files 1.39, database 1.73, config 1.24))
Mar 3 08:58:23 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: starting cluster syncronization
Mar 3 08:58:27 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: cluster syncronization finished (0 errors, 4.24 seconds (files 1.28, database 1.72, config 1.24))
Mar 3 09:00:23 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: starting cluster syncronization
Mar 3 09:00:27 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: cluster syncronization finished (0 errors, 4.26 seconds (files 1.33, database 1.69, config 1.24))
Mar 3 09:02:23 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: starting cluster syncronization
Mar 3 09:02:27 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: cluster syncronization finished (0 errors, 4.23 seconds (files 1.23, database 1.76, config 1.24))
Mar 3 09:04:23 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: starting cluster syncronization
Mar 3 09:04:25 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: detected rule database changes - starting sync from 'A.B.C.D'
Mar 3 09:04:26 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: finished rule database sync from host 'A.B.C.D'
Mar 3 09:04:28 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: cluster syncronization finished (0 errors, 4.97 seconds (files 1.49, database 2.23, config 1.24))
Mar 3 09:06:23 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: starting cluster syncronization
Mar 3 09:06:25 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: detected rule database changes - starting sync from 'A.B.C.D'
Mar 3 09:06:26 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: finished rule database sync from host 'A.B.C.D'
Mar 3 09:06:28 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: cluster syncronization finished (0 errors, 4.74 seconds (files 1.28, database 2.21, config 1.25))
Mar 3 09:08:23 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: starting cluster syncronization
Mar 3 09:08:25 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: detected rule database changes - starting sync from 'A.B.C.D'
Mar 3 09:08:25 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: finished rule database sync from host 'A.B.C.D'
Mar 3 09:08:28 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: cluster syncronization finished (0 errors, 4.65 seconds (files 1.18, database 2.23, config 1.24))
Mar 3 09:10:23 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: starting cluster syncronization
Mar 3 09:10:27 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: cluster syncronization finished (0 errors, 4.53 seconds (files 1.55, database 1.73, config 1.25))
Mar 3 09:12:23 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: starting cluster syncronization
Mar 3 09:12:28 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: cluster syncronization finished (0 errors, 4.17 seconds (files 1.22, database 1.70, config 1.25))
Mar 3 09:14:23 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: starting cluster syncronization
Mar 3 09:14:24 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: detected rule database changes - starting sync from 'A.B.C.D'
Mar 3 09:14:25 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: finished rule database sync from host 'A.B.C.D'
Mar 3 09:14:27 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: cluster syncronization finished (0 errors, 4.74 seconds (files 1.29, database 2.20, config 1.24))
Mar 3 09:16:23 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: starting cluster syncronization
Mar 3 09:16:28 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: cluster syncronization finished (0 errors, 4.32 seconds (files 1.34, database 1.73, config 1.25))
Mar 3 09:18:23 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: starting cluster syncronization
Mar 3 09:18:24 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: detected rule database changes - starting sync from 'A.B.C.D'
Mar 3 09:18:25 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: finished rule database sync from host 'A.B.C.D'
Mar 3 09:18:27 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: cluster syncronization finished (0 errors, 4.68 seconds (files 1.23, database 2.22, config 1.24))
Mar 3 09:18:27 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: restarting server after 15 cycles to reduce memory usage (free 112295936 (5345280) bytes)
Mar 3 09:18:27 mx2 pmgmirror[832]: server shutdown (restart)