how many OSD per node?
From your screenshot i saw 5 were out and left 7 in only? if total is 12 ... it should be 4 OSD per node but why the uneven?
Connection timed out , but i see ceph is rebuilding the datastorewhat is the error when you are trying to access your VM?
why did you remove OSD from working node and no backup ... i am sorry you might experience data loss ...I removed an entire node with 4 OSDs, and then I removed just one from another node, I thought that with 5 OSDs out everything would work