So, it is currently not merged into mainline kernel, which is usually a bad sign, because Linus may not want it. I normally would not use a manually patched kernel for a production machine anymore, maybe 15 years ago, but not anymore.
Think this is a load of bs.
Before Proxmox VE had lxc, we had openvz right? That was patched in. Every Debian kernel is a patched kernel, every Fedora Kernel is patched, Centos kernel is patched, so this makes no sense to say such a thing.
Proxmox VE is a virtualization platform, the reason it has lxc or former openvz support, is because kvm as great as it is, its no where near as good as lxc when it comes to performance for linux hosts/containers.
Kvm can use the KSM system, Lxc cant really use it.
UKSM is a Ksm like system, build on the base code of Ksm, its used by many more people than you think, even Huawei contributes code and bug fixes for it, and even a few minor linux distributions has it included.
Including it in the kernel for pve, is not the same as enabling it at default.
I see no reasons at all to not include it, or have it as another kernel to have installed.