I have read the docs (this and others, not all ;-) ) and done some tests.
--suspend doesn't works in this situation
--stop works, but I don't like it ;-)
vzdump is a nice script that does the work using various technics/tricks.
I am asking if there is a way to say it to force the backup without stop the VM also if there is the open console or something that normally block the process (that can became a --force / --noerror option).
Thanks, P.
N.B.: I think I have found a little bug in vzump, but I open another ticket on it