Dear jdrews, please note, that ARC/L2ARC - are ADAPTIVE cache. So, I think you can't get the speed about SSD from your magnetic drives! For ZiL (in general) will be enought 3GB part. ZiL is use ONLY for event of power cut situation.
Zfs will move from ARC to L2ARC WHEN ARC is FULL, e.g. I think...