Here's part of the syslog, after the reboot (note put hte HA to ignored). It is VM 118 that get's started, while it was set top stop just before the reboot of the pve node, note that vm 117 is always on should be started,.
2026-02-03T14:52:36.278369+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[97347]: starting service vm:118
2026-02-03T14:52:36.287605+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[97348]: start VM 118: UPID

ve1:00017C44:0014C108:6981FDA4:qmstart:118:root@pam:
2026-02-03T14:52:36.287717+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[97347]: <root@pam> starting task UPID

ve1:00017C44:0014C108:6981FDA4:qmstart:118:root@pam:
2026-02-03T14:52:37.173405+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[97348]: VM 118 started with PID 97361.
2026-02-03T14:52:37.183682+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[97347]: <root@pam> end task UPID

ve1:00017C44:0014C108:6981FDA4:qmstart:118:root@pam: OK
2026-02-03T14:52:37.186577+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[97347]: service status vm:118 started
2026-02-03T14:54:28.375823+01:00 pve1 systemd[1]: Stopping pve-ha-lrm.service - PVE Local HA Resource Manager Daemon...
2026-02-03T14:54:29.201089+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[1229]: received signal TERM
2026-02-03T14:54:29.210177+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[1229]: got shutdown request with shutdown policy 'conditional'
2026-02-03T14:54:29.210259+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[1229]: reboot LRM, stop and freeze all services
2026-02-03T14:54:36.224242+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[98351]: stopping service vm:117
2026-02-03T14:54:36.232178+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[98351]: <root@pam> starting task UPID

ve1:00018030:0014EFE3:6981FE1C:qmshutdown:117:root@pam:
2026-02-03T14:54:36.232501+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[98352]: shutdown VM 117: UPID

ve1:00018030:0014EFE3:6981FE1C:qmshutdown:117:root@pam:
2026-02-03T14:54:38.278320+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[98351]: <root@pam> end task UPID

ve1:00018030:0014EFE3:6981FE1C:qmshutdown:117:root@pam: OK
2026-02-03T14:54:38.278467+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[98351]: service status vm:117 stopped
2026-02-03T14:54:38.281610+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[1229]: watchdog closed (disabled)
2026-02-03T14:54:38.283118+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[1229]: server stopped
2026-02-03T14:54:39.216058+01:00 pve1 systemd[1]: pve-ha-lrm.service: Deactivated successfully.
2026-02-03T14:54:39.216287+01:00 pve1 systemd[1]: Stopped pve-ha-lrm.service - PVE Local HA Resource Manager Daemon.
2026-02-03T14:54:39.216364+01:00 pve1 systemd[1]: pve-ha-lrm.service: Consumed 13.955s CPU time, 244.2M memory peak.
2026-02-03T14:54:39.218186+01:00 pve1 systemd[1]: Stopping pve-ha-crm.service - PVE Cluster HA Resource Manager Daemon...
2026-02-03T14:54:39.940042+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-crm[1204]: received signal TERM
2026-02-03T14:54:39.940284+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-crm[1204]: server received shutdown request
2026-02-03T14:54:41.944698+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-crm[1204]: server stopped
2026-02-03T14:54:42.953639+01:00 pve1 systemd[1]: pve-ha-crm.service: Deactivated successfully.
2026-02-03T14:54:42.953739+01:00 pve1 systemd[1]: Stopped pve-ha-crm.service - PVE Cluster HA Resource Manager Daemon.
2026-02-03T14:54:42.953784+01:00 pve1 systemd[1]: pve-ha-crm.service: Consumed 4.670s CPU time, 231.1M memory peak.
2026-02-03T14:56:46.362744+01:00 pve1 systemd[1]: Starting pve-ha-crm.service - PVE Cluster HA Resource Manager Daemon...
2026-02-03T14:56:47.058432+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-crm[1204]: starting server
2026-02-03T14:56:47.058563+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-crm[1204]: status change startup => wait_for_quorum
2026-02-03T14:56:47.073923+01:00 pve1 systemd[1]: Started pve-ha-crm.service - PVE Cluster HA Resource Manager Daemon.
2026-02-03T14:56:54.921857+01:00 pve1 systemd[1]: Starting pve-ha-lrm.service - PVE Local HA Resource Manager Daemon...
2026-02-03T14:56:55.608865+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[1232]: starting server
2026-02-03T14:56:55.608974+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[1232]: status change startup => wait_for_agent_lock
2026-02-03T14:56:55.626617+01:00 pve1 systemd[1]: Started pve-ha-lrm.service - PVE Local HA Resource Manager Daemon.
2026-02-03T14:57:02.071125+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-crm[1204]: status change wait_for_quorum => slave
2026-02-03T14:57:05.618426+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[1232]: successfully acquired lock 'ha_agent_pve1_lock'
2026-02-03T14:57:05.618501+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[1232]: watchdog active
2026-02-03T14:57:05.618559+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[1232]: status change wait_for_agent_lock => active
2026-02-03T14:57:05.628065+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[1434]: starting service vm:117
2026-02-03T14:57:05.635843+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[1435]: start VM 117: UPID

ve1:0000059B:00000AD3:6981FEB1:qmstart:117:root@pam:
2026-02-03T14:57:05.636703+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[1434]: <root@pam> starting task UPID

ve1:0000059B:00000AD3:6981FEB1:qmstart:117:root@pam:
2026-02-03T14:57:06.803283+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[1435]: VM 117 started with PID 1457.
2026-02-03T14:57:06.814192+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[1434]: <root@pam> end task UPID

ve1:0000059B:00000AD3:6981FEB1:qmstart:117:root@pam: OK
2026-02-03T14:57:06.817243+01:00 pve1 pve-ha-lrm[1434]: service status vm:117 started