My problem is the backup use 100% of io (I see on Iotop) and load average go over 50 for a 8 thread cpu, vm are unresponsivePerhaps "man ionice" can help you to start your binary with a script doing ionice ... backup-bin or you could change the running process with it.
But don't really understand your problem as you mean that your old pve has slow I/O which is slowing your backup already ...
The option is on datacenter options so I think it was applied to entire cluster