regarding
set a fitting TLS Destination policy (in GUI->Configuration->Mail Proxy->TLS->TLS Destination policy) (with policy 'none')
see:
https://pmg.proxmox.com/pmg-docs/pmg-admin-guide.html#_mail_proxy_configuration (section 4.6.9)
since this is an internal mail server it will be either configured as default relay(GUI->Configuration->Mail Proxy->Relaying), or as Transport (GUI->Configuration->Mail Proxy->Transports) you need to create an entry for 'next-hop' destination - see this forum thread for such a case:
https://forum.proxmox.com/threads/cannot-start-tls-handshake-failure.82838/post-364678
'forcing' TLS for SMTP is (in almost all cases) not a good idea for a server which needs to connect to and receive mail from the whole internet:
* many SMTP servers (still) don't have a working (let alone valid) TLS setup
* this usually results in many not deliverable mails
simply enabling TLS in the GUI enables TLS where this is possible with the remote server, else the mail is sent in the clear
I hope this helps!