Cool - actively trying to get something running is quite a good way to learn
Ok - this is a combination of the following (if I understood the setup correctly):
* your PMG puts the mail in Quarantine (because it scores more than 2)
* when PMG releases mail from Quarantine it does not use the original envelope sender (see
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bounce_address for a bit of background) but 'postmaster@hostname_of_your_pmg' (the source for this is here [0]) - this has a few reasons - one is to not inform a spammer that an e-mail address exists (or does not exist) - since Quarantine is (usually) used for inbound mail
* hostname_of_your_pmg in your case seems to be d515313f9.static.telenet.be. (matching the PTR record of the public IP) - you can configure this (by setting the appropriate names in /etc/hostname, /etc/hosts) -
however
* an SMTP server needs (in the sense that else many other SMTP servers will refuse to accept mail from it) an matching hostname to it's ip address
* so unless you can change the reverse PTR of your IP (probably won't be possible for a residential line, but in any case you'd need to ask your ISP) - chances are that e-mail will not work too reliably from that IP (e.g. PMG has the 'Reject Unknown Clients' setting for precisely this situation)
* I guess the DMARC and bounce-address check would work out if you would let the mail through.
Regarding DMARC and DKIM failing - this is the result from PMG running the same tests on outbound mails as on inbound mails -
* the mail comes from your private IP mailserver 10.61.0.56 - so this will not be part of your SPF record
* additionally I assume you do the DKIM signing on PMG (so naturally the mail is not signed when it enters PMG)
* one option in this situation is to create a different view on your domain for PMG (without SPF and DKIM and DMARC records)
Also having a spamscore of 2 will create many false positive matches (I do get quite a few mails which are not spam and even score above 3)
I guess you would get better results if you setup a dedicated DNS server for PMG - as this would make URIBL work again (which yields enough points so that you can set the limit a bit higher (I'd start with 4)) - just check out the Getting Started Page on the wiki:
https://pmg.proxmox.com/wiki/index.php/Getting_started_with_Proxmox_Mail_Gateway
I hope that explains it (partially)!
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