Maybe you are in the case "it's not a bug, it's a feature" :-)
If you use HA, be sure to understand the STONITH mecanism. A visual summary : https://www.virtualizationhowto.com/wp-content/smush-webp/2026/02/proxmox-cluster-state-quorum-and-node-majority-1.png.webp
Look at Proxmox Cluster State...