It is wen i was installing opnsense and i played with the bridged network is when i started to cause this massive debacle.
I did do try to edit this in the console and logged in as root and still the *.conf filed were unwritable
I am not sure which config files you mean, but I assume those in /etc/pve/... path.
That is not a problem on its own, you probably have mismatch in what is in:
- /etc/network/interfaces
and
- /etc/hosts
You can also explicitly check what problem you have with:
journalctl -b -e
(you can scroll around and press Q when done, if there's something noteworthy you can even take picture of the screen)
I just find it very unlikely that your /etc/network/interfaces is not writeable.
You suggest to copy the file to a usb stick
i presume you are taking about the vm's and lxc's files . Although this may be simple to do I am sure that i would find a way to screw this up
You asked if you should be writing things down by pencil and paper.

That's not necessary, if you have to keep copy of configs, you can copy them out. That is, if you were going to reinstall it. But I think you should at least check if you indeed cannot write to the files mentioned above and also if that was the case, the log. It sounds something minor to me.
Since i can reach the server via console and see the ip 192.168.1.125 and i cant reach this server from an other pc.
I do not think you "see" any IP, whatever IP that PVE prints you above login is completely to be ignored in this situation. This is the issue with static IPs, even if you have e.g. working DHCP on that segment (whatever it would be, your actual router or some *Sense), your PVE will never get IP from it and if your PVE is on different subnet it's not routable, or even you could have IP conflict (something else was assigned the same IP by DHCP that you statically assigned to PVE).
I would suggest that the network of this server is recognized and that these interfaces at /etc/network/interfaces are present, I feel that there could be a conflict the console, host shows no ip4 address and the interfaces showing 192.168.1.120.
I am not sure what you refer to as "console" - these are servers, so it could be physical console or iDRAC. Forget the GUI or SSH for this kind of situation, you need to set proper IP to your server that is routable on the segment it is in. It is important to know what routers (real or virtual) you have there to even guess what's going on. I am not sure if your virtual one is off and how the the network configuration looks (you could post a picture from /etc/network/interfaces).
oops forgot to mention my router does show the proxmox mgmt at 192.168.1.120
When you say mgmt, I can only guess you mean iDRAC. That's fine, but it has no bearing on your other interface or Linux network config.
This i where i loose my confidence I'm certain there a way to fix this
What should i do?
Edit the two files mentioned above, if they are not editable, find out why (is the entire filesystem read-only?), check if you can e.g. create file (touch t) and post their content.
Thank you for your support
Do not overthink it, just make sure the server has proper network config. If need be, you will reboot it and configure from e.g. LIVE Debian.