Good morning, just one more and important update here: in order to get full functionality and possibilities to manipulate with unbind, bind, port, policy and node functions (driver level), one has to have mlnx-ofed-kernel-dkms_*-*-*_all.deb package installed on the pve machine (package delivered by mlnx (I grabbed the last stable version from mlnx deb repo and ignored promox vs mlnx version incompatibilities)). With help of dkms, pve-headers-some_numbers-pve and one dependency package one is able to install the package above and build the modules against current pve kernel ... after reboot one gets all functions that are needed. I chose only the package above (and not full ofed stack) to avoid potential incompatibilities in the future (one package broken is easier to troubleshoot than 50+ packages). I don't want to run full ofed client on pve level at the moment although it would probably be wise to use this network for pve cluster operations .... hope it helps someone and perhaps saves a bit of time ....