OK, since we have no installer and the configuration to produce a PVE install CD is unavailable, I've experimented a bit. I was able to replace the kernel and initrd on a standard Debian installer on an USB stick, and it was able to find the IDEr CD-rom, mount it and start the installation. However, this is just a test and defeats the purpose of the ability to install a system remotely. I also tried reconstructing the install CD from the ISO but I'm fairly inexperienced with making Debian installers so it didn't work. It booted, but the CD was twice the size (copied stuff over for cdrecord in a directory and replaced the kernel files) so obviously something is missing. An installer CD image of the configuration to produce one would really be helpful. I'm willing to test if the Proxmox team can provide those.