Doesn't this depend on the specs of the SSD?
It did not seem to me that the specs of SSD mattered that much when we are talking about large number of OSDs lets say 36 or more of them. Even with the fastest SSD out there performance will not get much benefit after certain point.
My personal preference though is Journal on OSDs even though it hurts performance a little. It eliminates extra layer of RAID for Journal SSDs. With Journal on OSD, if one hdd fails i only lose data for that one. If SSD/SSDs Journal fails, i lose entire host of OSDs and longer downtime.
Following a trail left by e100, i came across some articles where i found some tweaking that i can still do to the CEPH Cluster. Going to try them and see where my performance goes.
Proxmox VM seem to have slightly better performance when they are on CephFS. Somewhat promising. None of the CephFS VM crashed so far.